Your words and actions

"A strong woman isn't afraid to tell it like it is. She knows her words are powerful, and can be used to build people up or put them in their place"- Unknown

As a woman on her journey to greatness, your words matter. Everything that you say is a reflection of what is in you. So if vile things come out of your mouth, you must be vile inside, that simple.
Ladies, we must understand that less is more, and you do not need to say so much to get want you want. Let your actions speak for you, so when you do speak it will have great value. You want to be respected? Respect those around you, you do not demand for it. You want to be shown love? Show love to those around you.

Newton's third law of motion was very accurate when it said' "for every action, there is an equal and opposite re-action"; This means that for every force, there is a reaction force that is equal in size, but opposite in direction. Simply put, whatever you put out there, you get it back to you just as you put it out there; so, you want love? show love. That simple.

You cannot be a legend someday by stepping on people's heads. You cannot truly been seen as a strong independent woman by bullying others, it is not the way strength works, while you are strong for yourself, it has to rub off on others around you. younger girls and women around you should aspire to be like you someday. It does not come easy but we all must master this to be great.

Speak love today, speak joy, be kind, give off a positive vibe at work, at school today, wherever you are today, let your words bless those around you today. Be a good example today, and as you do so, you will get an equal and opposite reaction from those around you.

Stay blessed luv!

xoxo

Sandpaper

"When the going gets tough, keep holding on".

There will be hard times, there will be times when all you want to do is give up, don't you dare.
You've gone through too much to give up now, and frankly it's too late to give up now.

Maybe you lost your job, got your heart broken, was betrayed, whatever trial this world has thrown at you or is throwing at you, keep holding on.

Sandpaper rubs harshly on the surface of the wood, and I'm sure if the wood could speak, it would cry out in agony begging for it to stop, but in the end, when the sandpaper is worn out, the wood is smooth and beautiful. The same applies to us sometimes, this bad situations are like the sandpaper, they bring pain and absolute agony an we cry out begging it to stop because it's too hard but when those tough times pass, which they will, we will come out smoother, stronger and more beautiful than ever.

Whatever your sandpaper may be right now, don't give up, you are being polished for your great tomorrow luv.

xoxo

You can do it!

“Success is liking yourself, liking what you do, and liking how you do it” – Maya Angelou

You want to be somebody? Love yourself!

So many strong beautiful women out there are struggling in life because they have not grasped this simple principle.
Think about it, how can you possible give off a positive energy if you’re always negative? How can you tell someone to be strong if you don’t even believe in yourself?
And how can you succeed if you doubt yourself constantly and believe you do not deserve it?

To be great, there is one simple principle, love God, love yourself and show love to the people around you.
If you give off a positive energy everywhere you go, you will get the positive energy in return and you will notice you suddenly enjoy the things you never did, doors will open up to you, people will open up to you and things will simply just fall in place for you; but it is all up to you to choose to be positive, to choose to be strong, to choose to love yourself and be confident because, girl, you are beautiful and you are one of a kind!

Have a blessed day darling!

xoxo

HADASSAH

An orphan girl; all she had left was her uncle. She didn’t let that weigh her down. She remained a virtuous woman. She did not let the awful world and awful circumstances create someone she wouldn’t recognize someday. She remained true, strong, and beautiful both inside and out.

She grew into in a fine young woman, little did she know she would someday be queen and rule the world; although it wasn’t easy, she fought for that position; she changed her name to Esther to hide her identity as it was the safe thing to do, she gave her all. She remained true to herself. She never lost her confidence and she succeeded.

She was a queen to behold. Young and beautiful, confident yet humble, she went up to the king in troubled times facing death, she was strong, she sacrificed it all for her people because she remained true to who she was, she never forgot where she came from.

The easy life, the gold and silver at her disposal, servants at her beck and call did not make her arrogant and mean. She remained true through it all.

She was honored, she was a queen like no other…..she stayed true, strong, confident and she succeeded. A true legend!

Who are you darling?

Have you forgotten who you really are and gotten lost in this world of chaos?

Darling, remain true to you, be confident and stay strong. It may be hard now but the best things don’t come easy, so hang on luv, you are beautiful and strong and you will be just fine in the end, do not compromise yourself, stay true, confident and strong! :)

xoxo

ROAR!!!

He hurt you, he hit you, he said the most horrible things to you...
What are you going do about it?
Are you going to sit there and let him win? Or are you going to stand up and prove him wrong?

He told you you were too fat or too skinny, not good enough, not pretty enough, not the right girl for him and you believed him. You let him take away your confidence, you became weak.

Are you going to let him win?
Are you going to remain on the floor and prove him right?
Or are you going to get up and prove him wrong, and use every negativity against you as a sandpaper and come out smooth?

For years, you remained on the floor, consumed with pain and self pity, filled with anger and all you wanted was vengeance, you wanted to make him pay for all he did to you. That pain had turned to anger; I have an advice for you. Use that pain, use that anger, get up from the floor and roar, because you are a lioness and you can and will be great!
Channel every pain and anger, find your passion, put your all to it, yes, you can! Choose to be the next Rosa Parks, Florence Nightingale, Audrey Hepburn, Simone de Beauvoir, Marie Curie, Oprah Winfrey, Helen Keller, Beyonce.You can be whoever you want to be once you get up from that floor girl!

Your past does not determine your future. You might have been nothing yesterday but you can be greater that you ever imagined today.

RISE AND BE A QUEEN! Let everyone who ever put you down eat their words when they hear you ROAR!

xoxo

You are beautiful

To you reading this, yes you, keep reading, it's a reminder that you are one of a kind :)

You may have lost confidence in yourself
You may feel inadequate
You may feel you're not pretty enough
You may feel you're not tall enough, or skinny enough, or smart enough

Who cares! You may not be the prettiest or the smartest or the skinniest but you are unique in every way
There are over 6 billion people in the world but there is only one of you and that is something to behold!
No one can ever be you, bask in that for a moment...
All those people you admire and look up to can never be as unique as you are
So stop, stop worry and doubting yourself, cos babe, you are truly amazing and a precious gem

You are one of a kind, don't let anyone tell you different
You the best of you and no one and nothing can ever take that away from you darling.

So, smile, raise your head up, wipe those tears, stand tall and be confident because you are a QUEEN and YOU can rule the world!

xoxo